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“Vesper” by David Arnold
Pt. I  ·  The Persona
Vesper Vex — the companion
I The Companion
Vesper Vex — the controller
II The Controller

Femme Fatale Dominatrix

My approach is entirely cerebral — shaped by years in academia, a lifelong devotion to classical literature, a love of avant-garde cinema, and a working fluency in how power conducts itself when it assumes itself unobserved. When I wasn't walking the runways of New York Fashion Week or performing as an internationally recognized television star, I was in the boardroom, seated across from men like you. For years I was given a rare view of how men behave in rooms where they believe no woman is watching. I have carried that knowledge from the boardroom to my boudoir. The men who run the world hold no mystery for me. I came up among men — and learned, in the process, how to master them.

My practice moves between two modalities.

There is The Companion — cultured, quick-witted, an experienced conversationalist who intimately understands your world, your responsibilities, your passions and your fears.

And there is The Controller — the one who reads you before the first touch, who takes hold of what you have spent a lifetime managing and gives you, exactly, the thing you have never been able to ask for.

Any Questions?

How do I book a session?

You don't book a session with me — you apply for one. The application only takes a few minutes to complete and tells me everything I need to know: who you are, what you are looking for, and how you plan to verify. I choose by your introduction, not your urgency, and I answer the ones that are specific.

What does a session cost?

Session rates begin at $900 for the first hour; longer arrangements are priced on The Sessions menu below. For kink/fetish requests outside my usual purview, pricing may be subject to change. A non-refundable deposit confirms your date — $250 for sessions of two hours or less, plus $250 for each hour beyond that — and nothing is held until it clears. For those who want additional security, a Non-Disclosure Agreement is available for $250, paid with your deposit.

What should I expect from a first session?

Your first session is The Assessment: one hour, on my terms. Expect nothing off a menu — the work is psychological before it is physical, built around you rather than a script. You may name what you wish to explore; what to expect, however, is yours to discover.

Is screening required?

Always. A session with me is personal, precise, and cerebral — I do not meet anonymously, which means that without professional references, I need to know who I am meeting before we book. Screening takes one of three forms: a professional reference; a verification link, where a personal website or an active social media profile is equally acceptable; or a photo of you holding your driver's license — name and photo visible, the rest is yours to redact. Whatever you share goes no further; discretion is assumed, not requested.

Do you see clients outside Los Angeles?

I am based in Los Angeles, and I travel by arrangement. If you would like for me to travel to you, you are expected to provide first- or business-class airfare, ground transportation, and half the session fee as your deposit. Arrangements of this kind begin — as everything does — with The Application. If travel is not within reach: sessions by phone, text, and video are how many men first find themselves in front of me.

Pt. II  ·  In Person

“Yes, Mistress Vex.”

You are a man others rely upon. People bring you their problems, their ambitions, their need for an answer — and you provide it, because that is what is expected of a man in your position. Few wonder what it costs you; fewer still could carry it themselves. What none of them see is that the role is equal parts power and performance, and that you have worn it so long the two are no longer distinct, even to you. I am most interested in where the performance ends and the man beneath it begins. That is where the real work lies.

A session is personal, precise, and cerebral — never a menu of acts. My method is psychological before it is physical: I read you before I touch you, and I move you from intellectual parity to absolute authority. What it becomes is yours to discover, not to shop for.

I do not meet anonymously, and I do not meet everyone. I choose by your introduction, not your urgency — and I answer the ones that are specific.

The Sessions
  • The AssessmentOne hour$900
  • The AppraisalTwo hours$2,000
  • The AcademyFour hours$4,500
  • Dinner & DominationAn evening$6,500

Cocktails, $250. Dinner, $400. A $250 deposit — sent electronically, non-refundable — confirms your date; nothing is held until it clears. Everything begins with the application.

Don't keep me waiting.Apply within.
Pt. III  ·  XXX
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